Whenever Bianca that is 21-year-old Monteiro of age, she knew she wasn’t thinking about “vanilla sex.”

“My first boyfriend was into sadomasochism and into ball busting, that was a massive plunge into sexuality for me personally,” the school pupil, whom identifies as non-binary and makes use of both she plus they pronouns, explained over e-mail. Those experiences that are first sexual a precedent for the array of “non-vanilla” requires her future lovers could have. […]