8. Understand that a Perfect Match Does Not Require Perfect Compatibility
I’m with my hubby: realize that a perfect match doesn’t need perfect compatibility.
I thought he was cute and smart and really fun to talk to when I first met my husband. Bu we almost discounted him as a result of their profession.
Let’s just take moment to recognize just just how ridiculous and shortsighted that is.
Okay. Therefore, here’s the offer. At that time within my life, I wanted to be much more imaginative I was than I felt. And since I’dn’t yet found that side of myself (which now literally defines my whole being), we sought it down in relationships. If We dated innovative dudes, that must suggest I’m creative, right?
Therefore, once I came across my better half and heard that he had been some type of computer programmer, I made a lot of hasty presumptions about him: should be analytical, needs to be bashful, ought not to be imaginative.
Oof! Also composing this makes me squirm. Exactly what a person that is judgmental had been — and all sorts of because I experiencedn’t completely realized my personal self yet. […]